When Life Changes the Plan, for a Moment: Sometimes, our dreams get delayed. Sometimes, life takes a different turn. And sometimes, we stop dreaming because things get too hard. In a world that celebrates finished stories, perfect jobs, happy endings, and fast success, we often forget something important: The most powerful part of your story is not the end. It is the courage to keep going when things do not go as planned.
This message is for people who are still on the journey. Maybe you had to pause your dreams because of war, immigration, mental health, motherhood, or burnout. That pause is not the end. It is the beginning of something deeper.
1. The Truth About Success
Today, success often means reaching the top or being seen by others. But some of the greatest people in history did not finish their dream during their lifetime:
- Nelson Mandela spent twenty-seven years in prison before becoming a leader.
- Rosa Parks made history with one brave decision.
- Many immigrants arrive in Canada and have to start over, even with big dreams and education.
Their stories were not perfect, but they made a big impact. And so can we.
2. Your Struggle Is Like a Seed
On the farm, I learned this: Before a seed grows, it must break open in the dark soil. That breaking looks painful, but it is the start of life. The same is true for us. Our struggle is not a sign of failure, it is a sign of growth. Maybe what looks like a delay is actually preparing us for our true mission.
3. Do Not Compare Yourself to Others
We often compare our journey with others. But we forget:
Everyone’s timeline is different.
Some people are showing their “good days” while hiding the hard ones.
We cannot compare a seed just planted with a tree that has been growing for years.
Success is not a place. It is a direction. If we are still learning, growing, and trying, we are already on the right path.
4. Turn Your Pause into Purpose
Ask yourself this: What is this hard time trying to teach me? Maybe the delay is not a mistake. Maybe it is building strength, wisdom, and purpose inside you.
Do not wait until everything is perfect. Share your story while it is still unfolding. Help others with the lessons you are learning right now.
5. Your Dream Still Matters
Even if your dream is not complete, it still matters. Even if things changed, your story still has power. When you speak honestly, you give others the courage to speak too. You do not need to be finished. You just need to be real.
Speak from your truth. Teach from your experience. Grow from where you are.
Keep in mind: The Forest Will Come
Right now, you may feel like you are just holding seeds. But one day, those seeds will grow into something strong. To plant a tree is to believe in tomorrow. African Proverb
Keep going. You are not too late. You are becoming who you are meant to be.
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What is one dream you paused but want to return to?
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Salamane Yameogo,
Empowering Human Potential
